Invariably if the person I’m speaking to has been single at any point in the last decade, then yes, they know exactly what I mean, because if there’s one scenario that’s become endemic amongst myself and my peers, it’s our inability to define a relationship after the first five or six dates. Is it too soon to refer to someone as your boyfriend? If you’ve been on 12 dates with someone, you really don’t still want to be seeing other people do you?
And yet, most guys walk all over a nice girl when they fall in love with one. Some girls I’ve pursued harder and some girls I’ve never given a damn about *even though they were absolute stunners!
* [Read: 20 reasons why a guy may never really like you back] If what most people say were to be true, that guys fall for only a girl’s appearance all the time, then every single good looking girl in the world must be experiencing the best relationship in the world, wouldn’t you say? There are so many great looking girls who are bitter in love and are walked over by guys all the time. The dating code for girls To have the best relationships of your life, you need to understand these dating girl codes.
The two phases of romance To experience a happy relationship with a guy, you need to understand the two phases in romance. And anything romantic beyond those first couple of months, you’re in the relationship phase.
[Read: The 9 relationship stages all couples go through] If you want to experience a perfect relationship with a guy, it’s very important that you play your part well in both these phases.
One friend (who wishes to remain anonymous lest her non-boyfriend reads this) explains: “I’ve been seeing this guy for four months now – we’re dating and see each other a couple of times a week.
However, if anyone refers to me as his girlfriend in front of him, the colour drains from his face.
] But before going any further into these dating codes for girls, let’s spend a few lines on what attracts guys to a girl and make her desirable. A guy definitely does fall for a girl’s appearance. But beyond that, there’s something a lot more crucial that you need to know to keep a guy interested in you.
And that’s the real secret code behind the game of romance and making a guy fall hard for you. If you’ve been seeing a guy for less than a couple of months and haven’t given the relationship a real name, you’re in the dating phase.
In the dating phase, you need to make the guy fall for you, and you need to make him fall hard.