What kind of qualities are important in a girlfriend? How does she treat those who aren’t in the popular crowd and can do nothing for her? She will persevere with you through the good times and the bad, and is going to challenge you to be the best version of yourself.
If you’re spending lots of time becoming the best guy you can be, why not have some standards for the girl you will date? She’s patient Do you feel like she’s dating you because of the guy you could become? Love is more than the Merriam-Webster definition: “a feeling of strong or constant affection for a person.” Love is a verb, right? It’s patient, it’s kind, and it’s more geared to the other person than the “feeling” within yourself.
However, as we get older and actually get some life experience under our belts, then our expectations tend to change.
We get more realistic and less stuck on the “picture” of perfection.
Does she help others or is she only concerned about herself? Sure, a short-tempered person can apologize, but words are powerful. If she keeps a record of your wrongs, you need a girl with an empty file cabinet. She goes the distance Settle down guys, not talking about sex here; this is about character.
You want a girl who is forgiving and looks for the best in everyone. If you want a good girl to take home to momma, find one who honors others. She’s not a honeybadger Is she a people user, and willing to step on others to get what she wants? Someone who is easily angered is more intent on destroying than building, and a good relationship always builds. She lets go of the past She doesn’t hold a historical ledger against you.
Even though I’m not a big advocate of lists, I think an ideal mate checklist can be a useful exercise and teaching tool. 🙂 You want a man who is: Attractive Honest Intelligent Kind Funny Financially Stable This is entirely normal. You can’t go out with a guy you can literally see eye-to-eye with. It just doesn’t make you feel feminine or turned-on. You know what it’s like to feel lust and you just don’t feel it with him.
But because I don’t want you to work too hard, I’m going to make your list for you. Then again, you probably ALSO want a man who is: Loyal Family-oriented Sexy Generous Interesting Confident Solid list, huh? And even though this guy is perfect in every other way, that’s not something you can live without. He’s an amazing guy, but he just tries so damn hard to please that you can’t even respect him. You can’t go the rest of your life without that chemical rush. It's warm out, which means it's time for spring fever, if you know what I mean.Which brings me to the a topic I think we all have on our minds no matter what our dating status: The checklist of beautifying steps you want to take to make sure your confidence is as high as it can possibly go for a night of romancin'. I'm really only putting this in to make my mom happy. ) You can skip flossing and just brush your teeth or gargle with mouthwash. Basically you just want to make sure you've got fresh breath. To get started, Her Campus has put together a list of the DOs and DON’Ts of college dating.Who, you ask, knew there was such a science behind college guys, anyway? Well, maybe, but there might be a little bit more to it.I also like to put on a whitening strip here, but that's really optional.